Getting too absorbed by work…
After working here for almost 7 months, I realised one thing, my life….seems to left only 1 thing and that is work!
Its been 2-3 months since I last visited my aunt/grandma, if not for the TW trip…i haven’t really have a good rest!
Everyday…after work …even on the bus, sometimes i daze out thinking about how to resolve some issues @ work.
My whole mind is being filled by work!!!
My avg knockoff time is abt 8-9pm now. Which is not healthy. I have stopped all my financial planning, all my investment……..meeting my fren less & less.
Feeling abit down, sad, lost? Because sometimes certain friendship come too fast…and when it turns colder…abit not used to it. Missing the OT dinner together, the late nights in the office…the KTV, the 搭順風車的日子。。。Now when i go work…sometimes i feel abit lonely. ~~
Certain things i also 太過重視。。。。maybe I should just take it naturally…I would feel better…
Sometimes…i will think if making friends at work is a right or wrong decision…nothing wrong with them…I just fet that at times I am too emotionly attached.
sleepy le…nite.
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Maybe that’s why I am v clear about who are my friends
Friends are a form of emotional investment. Like all investments, sometimes it just doesn’t pay off at the end of the day.
Maybe it’s a v cynical view of the world but it’s also for own protection
Sometimes maybe is just me that get too emotionally attached bah. Is the expectation formed….people may have different expectation thus the mis-match.
But having friends at work makes one look forward and enjoy working too. But this is kinda first time I let myself get emotionally attached to friends at work…still wonder if it is good or bad.
You are right…for own protection…i used to think that way in terms of friendship @ work. But…now..i dunno ^^|
Should always have a barrier at work I guess
maybe. but for now…am happy that I got good frens at work. motivate me LOLOL.